If you love someone, let it go. If it comes back to you, it’s yours forever. If it doesn’t, then it was never meant to be…so cliché – I know, but yet- sooo true.
I recently became a believer of this quote, so I figured I would share my testimony with you.
Not too long ago me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up for a few months, and I just KNEW he wasn’t coming back into my life. Sometimes when things go wrong in a relationship the realistic thing to do is call it quits!...if its that bad. And hunny that’s exactly what I did! I just knew that our relationship was done because I could not DEAL with what was thrown to me at that time in my relationship. For months I didn’t want to speak to him, speak of him, see him, and definitely had no intentions of being with him, so in that case I was doing my own thing, what we call nowadays “”DOIN ME!” lol
I’m not even going to lie, there were times where I thought about giving him a chance, hence the word THOUGHT. And there were even times where I would call him, but it was just to be nosey, to see if he had moved on, or did he have a girlfriend already…I did care, and at the same time I did not want to be with him, you know…. things that we females do. that make sense to us, so if you’re a female, I know you understand.
I spent a few months trying to get my mind off of him and on to other things, and I CAN say..I did a pretty good job at it ;) but anyways back to the point.
My boyfriend (Jay) and I are back together, and I can honestly say that it’s going to be for the long run. I feel like, we have one of those relationships from back in the day where you just KNEW. You just KNEW this person was the one you had to deal with, and you just KNEW this was the one you’d spend the rest of your life with!
No matter how much they b*tch about things-- you deal with it, only because you've learned to accept the things that you don’t QUITE like about that person, brush it off by calling that person crazy, and at the end of the day still love them the same.
This has all overcame me ever since I let him go…and since he has been back, and I can honestly say that he is mines forever.
Sometimes you need that break in a relationship, to figure yourselves out, and to figure out what it is that you really want. Some people need that alone time, I know my relationship did, and ever since we’ve been BACK we both just KNOW we're gonna be forever…
The moral of my story guys is to not be afraid. When things go wrong let it go, and Let God!! Things WILL NOT always work in your favor, especially if you et your anger deal with it. But if you let things go, let go, let God, and let peace come in the end...things will work itself out.
With Love,
PerrtyB
