If You Love Something...Let It go

If you love someone, let it go. If it comes back to you, it’s yours forever. If it doesn’t, then it was never meant to be…so cliché – I know, but yet- sooo true.

I recently became a believer of this quote, so I figured I would share my testimony with you.

Not too long ago me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up for a few months, and I just KNEW he wasn’t coming back into my life. Sometimes when things go wrong in a relationship the realistic thing to do is call it quits!...if its that bad. And hunny that’s exactly what I did! I just knew that our relationship was done because I could not DEAL with what was thrown to me at that time in my relationship. For months I didn’t want to speak to him, speak of him, see him, and definitely had no intentions of being with him, so in that case I was doing my own thing, what we call nowadays “”DOIN ME!” lol

I’m not even going to lie, there were times where I thought about giving him a chance, hence the word THOUGHT. And there were even times where I would call him, but it was just to be nosey, to see if he had moved on, or did he have a girlfriend already…I did care, and at the same time I did not want to be with him, you know…. things that we females do. that make sense to us, so if you’re a female, I know you understand.

I spent a few months trying to get my mind off of him and on to other things, and I CAN say..I did a pretty good job at it ;) but anyways back to the point.

My boyfriend (Jay) and I are back together, and I can honestly say that it’s going to be for the long run. I feel like, we have one of those relationships from back in the day where you just KNEW. You just KNEW this person was the one you had to deal with, and you just KNEW this was the one you’d spend the rest of your life with!

No matter how much they b*tch about things-- you deal with it, only because you've learned to accept the things that you don’t QUITE like about that person, brush it off by calling that person crazy, and at the end of the day still love them the same.

This has all overcame me ever since I let him go…and since he has been back, and I can honestly say that he is mines forever.

Sometimes you need that break in a relationship, to figure yourselves out, and to figure out what it is that you really want. Some people need that alone time, I know my relationship did, and ever since we’ve been BACK we both just KNOW we're gonna be forever…


The moral of my story guys is to not be afraid. When things go wrong let it go, and Let God!! Things WILL NOT always work in your favor, especially if you et your anger deal with it. But if you let things go, let go, let God, and let peace come in the end...things will work itself out.

With Love,
PerrtyB

Subliminally Speaking...

Have you ever wondered what people really mean by what they say? Has some things people say hit hard as if it were directly directed toward you, but was said [in]directly??

Well that my friend is what I call subliminally speaking…but don’t take my word for it.Look it up..or continue reading what I found..the dictionary says the word sublinmal means “existing or operating below the threshold of consciousness; being or employing stimuli insufficiently intense to produce a discrete sensation but often being or designed to be intense enough to influence the mental processes or the behavior of the individual.”

Why is it that people talk in subliminal messages??

I mean, I feel like it you have something to say, SAYYY IT!!!..if you feel some type of way about some issues YOUR battling and want to EXPress yourself then be big enough to just EXXPRESSS!!

I could see if your the host of a game show, and your trying to give hints to an answer/idea or…you ask a tricky question annddd don’t wanna give the answer straight out, but if your NOT and your speaking subliminally to or about someone in a casual setting or conversation then guyyss…. its POINTLESS! and IRRELEVANT to your thoughts because your talking but at the same time your not saying a thing lol LOL

Now don’t get me wrong this is not to say that people need to be bold and out of control with the things that cross their minds or the issues that they’re having within. BUT I personally don’t like subliminal messages because…they…..they…...uhhmmmm….they confuse the hell outta me! Lol Its like “ok you made that comment, BUT WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY IT.” If a person can talk sideways, then he/she should be a PRO at being straight forward! Lol..I just don’t get it.

Personally I think that people that tend to beat around the bush with the things they really wanna say are cowards.
But then again you have some people that are what we call…haters, and people who also are not comfortable within theirselves…and sadly but not leastly he/she may be a combination of both!

All in all..for you sublimnal speakers: SPEAK UP for yourselves… For the people that your talking to CAN HEAR YOU…but not so clearly :/

And for you indirect receivers, if you ever feel as tho these subliminal messages are meant for you and you personally! …continue reading….

Number 1: Feel special…yesssss..feel very very special :D because the messenger obviously did not have the balls to say the message directly!

Number 2: Don’t let a sumbliminalizer [(lol if that’s even a word!..but dont judge me. K. this is myy blogg!:)] anyway don’t let them get off easy! Right then and there catch them! in there trap! (and yess im talking about them as if they’re some kind of exciting animal to catch…). And if you try it… im sure you’ll get some kind of thrill out of it! Muhhahaahhaa (evil laugh)

--->But once you’ve caught them! in the trap that is! Question them..like a criminal in a interrogation room!..seriously. Because majority of the time the subliminal messenger doesn’t even know why they say such things…they’re usually so drunk off Haterade, and when questioned they tend to look stupid in the face…

Number 3: After you’ve pulled their cards…determine wheter or not this subliminal messenger is someone you want to be around? If this person is in your “circle” you might want to regroup. If this person is an “associate” you might need some dissassociation. And last but not least if this is someone you call a friend you may need to reconsider lol

----------am I taking it too far?—

I don’t think so..know why? Because people who are not for you- are against you.

Just think about it. If you make snarky comments at someone it’s for a reason..and snarky doesn’t mean nice. But im assuming you’re not like that…hmm, ill just assume you’re a genuine person…okay?..and you speak from the heart…mmkayy……..& ummmm…and you wouldn’t make snarky comments because if you feel some type of way about WHOEVER then you know how to say it genuinely…and you wouldn’t think of things to hurt someone’s feelings, or try making them look like an idiot (what some may call trying to “Carry” someone)

So, to all my genuine people out there shout out to you all…and to everyone else. GET that hate up off ya face! lol…..it just doesn’t look good on you :/

Sincerely ME Xo

Favorite Quote

"To Excel In All things should be your Main Goal, Mediocrity is Obscurity"
-T. Fuller

Officially on My Blogg ish...

Umm..Well hello readers my name is Ba’Keya pronounced Bah-Key-yah(i know it can be a little hard for some)..Leave it to my boyfriend and its Perrty, hense the user name..anyway… im new to blogging but I figured that I would give it a try because I do like writing..and especially with expression. Bare with me because im sometimes the most random person with the most random thoughts..but then again thats what this is all about lol I hope you stay tuned, if not its kool..i will Love Love Love you anyway for stopping by ;) Muah Xo